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A classic in its own time...The original self-help treatise that has inspired countless numbers of men and women throughout the world. Learn how love can release hidden potential and become life's most exhilarating experience. In this fresh and candid work, renowned psychoanalyst Erich Fromm guides you in developing your capacity for love in all its aspectsromantic love, love of parents for children, brotherly love, erotic love, self-love, and love of God. Read by a professional narrator, this powerful rendition of the book shows how you can alter the whole course of your life.
The Art of Loving has been continuously in publication since 1956 and has sold over 6 million copies. It is considered the seminal work in developing the psychology of person growth.
關於愛是什麼,為何我們需要愛等問題,在《愛的藝術》這本書中,當代心理分析學傢弗洛姆有著不同於一般人對愛的詮釋。愛的藝術並非是一本教人學會如何愛的情愛聖典,而是關於指導人生意義的心靈哲學類書籍。
本書要告訴讀者,愛情不是一種與人的成熟程度無關,隻需要投入身心的感情。這本書要說服讀者:如果不努力發展自己的全部人格並以此達到一種創造傾嚮性,那麼每種愛的試圖都會失敗;如果沒有愛他人的能力,如果不能真正謙恭地、勇敢地、真誠地和有紀律地愛他人,那麼人們在自己的愛情生活中也永遠得不到滿足。
愛是一門藝術嗎?如果愛是一門藝術,那就要求想要掌握這門藝術的人有這方麵的知識並付齣努力。
愛情是一種積極的,而不是消極的情緒,是人內心生長的東西,而不是被俘虜的情緒。一般來說可以用另一個說法來錶達,即愛情首先是給而不是得。
天真的、孩童式的愛情遵循下列原則:“我愛,因為我被人愛。”成熟的愛的原則是:“我被人愛,因為我愛人。”不成熟的、幼稚的愛是:“我愛你,因為我需要你。”而成熟的愛是:“我需要你,因為我愛你。”
如果我確實愛一個人,那麼我也愛其他的人,我就會愛世界,愛生活。如果我能對一個人說“我愛你”,我也應該可以說“我在你身上愛所有的人,愛世界,也愛我自己。”
內容簡介
The renowned psychoanalyst Erich Fromm has helped millions of men and women achieve rich, productive lives by developing their hidden capacities for love. In this astonishly frank and candid book, he explores the ways in which this extraordinary emotion can alter the whole course of your life.
Most of us are unable to develop our capacities for love on the only level that really counts--a love that is compounded of maturity, self-knowledge, and courage. Learning to love, like other arts, demands practice and concentration. Even more than any other art it demands genuine insight and understanding. In this startling book, Fromm discusses love in all its aspects; not only romantic love, so surrounded by conceptions, but also love of parents for children, brotherly love, erotic love, self-love, and love of God.
作者簡介
Erich Fromm (1900-1980) emigrated from Germany in 1934 to the United States, where he held a private psychotherapeutic practice and taught at Columbia, Yale, and New York University. His many books include The Art of Loving, Escape from Freedom, Man for Himself, and The Anatomy of Human Destructiveness.
艾罩希·弗洛姆,著名德裔美籍心理學傢、精神分析學傢、哲學傢。1900年生於德國法蘭剋福猶太人傢庭,1922年獲德國海德堡大學哲學博士學位,是二十年代“法蘭剋福學派”重要成員。納粹上颱後,他於1934年赴美,在從事心理谘詢工作的同時,住哥倫比亞大學等學術機構講學,井先後執教於墨西哥國立大學、密歇根州立人學等高校。1980年弗洛姆病逝於瑞士洛伽諾。
弗洛姆的研究植根於弗洛伊德的精神分析學說和馬剋思主義哲學理論。他認為人是各自所在文化的産物,在現代工業化社會,人變得越來越自我疏離,這種孤立感導緻人們潛意識下渴望與他人結閤、聯係。
弗洛姆以深入淺齣、平易近人的文筆,創作瞭人量學術著作和普及性作品,其中影響最大的有《愛的藝術》、《逃避自由》、《健全的社會》、《精神分析的危機》等。
精彩書評
"Erich Fromm is both a psychologist of penetration and a writer of ability. His book is one of dignity and candor, of practicality and precision." --Chicago Tribune
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