具体描述
推薦1：孩子隻聽得懂故事的語言道理一籮筐，不如故事一小章
推薦2：媽媽不知道怎麼辦？故事全知道。媽媽給孩子講故事，追求的是用人去感染人、用事件去引導事件；孩子聆聽故事，收獲的是於一點一滴中對自我、對社會的反思。媽媽運用這種教育方式，能在輕鬆愉快的氛圍中，達到事半功倍、皆大歡喜的教育效果。
推薦3：本書精選瞭70個受小朋友喜歡的經典好故事，這些故事貼近孩子的生活、切閤孩子的心理。通過媽媽之口娓娓道來，引導孩子去思索、去感悟。本書還有一個特色，就是每一篇文章的後都配有一個“媽媽錦囊”，為每一位媽媽提供切實的解決技巧。
推薦4：很多時候，並非孩子不聽媽媽的教導，而是孩子不能理解媽媽所說的道理。讓媽媽的教育工作從講故事入手，過程有趣，結果有效！
推薦5：故事的魔力不可小覷，會講故事的媽媽**！如果想讓教育擺脫枯燥和嚴肅，如果想讓媽媽永遠溫柔和慈愛，就讓傢教從講故事開始吧！
目錄
習慣：好習慣成就***的孩子
《挑食的小白兔》——不挑食，長得壯
《沒牙齒的大老虎》——愛吃糖，甜掉牙
《大公雞和“漏嘴巴”》——粒粒米，吃乾淨
《愛睡懶覺的鳥弟弟》——起的早，有“蟲”吃
《不愛睡覺的小猴子》——睡得早，精神好
《小雞快跑》——勤鍛煉，身體棒
《不愛洗澡的小熊》——髒娃娃，沒朋友
《小豬的水彩筆》——馬大哈，要不得
《說大話的小黃雞》——吹大牛，釀惡果
《列寜理發》——守規則，要自覺
性格：讓良好性格主宰孩子的一生
《悲觀和樂觀兄弟》——想成功，樂觀點
《小袋鼠長大瞭》——不依賴，靠自己
《任性的小驢子》——好孩子，要聽話
《勇敢的小怕怕》——我勇敢，我不怕
《竹子裏的秘密》——想快樂，開心門
《機靈的青蛙》——遇事情，要冷靜
《小猴子下山》——沒長性，沒成功
《三條大魚》——做決定，要果斷
《擋不住的誘惑》——對誘惑，不心動
《偷油喝的小老鼠》——自私鬼，沒路走
品德：在美德中成長的孩子*幸福
《孝順的小烏鴉》——對父母，常感恩
《負荊請罪》——能寬容，是美德
《快樂王子與小燕子》——人之初，性本善
《狼來瞭》——不說謊，贏信賴
《華盛頓砍倒櫻桃樹》——犯瞭錯，勇承擔
《逃難中的哈默》——自尊心，要維護
《小羊過橋》——爭不足，讓有餘
《老鎖匠的徒弟》——人處世，要正直
《懂禮貌的小白兔》——好孩子，懂禮貌
《山的迴聲》——重人者，被尊重
情商：高情商讓孩子輕鬆適應社會
《買橘子》——對自我，常反省
《黃美廉眼中的自己》——做自己，愛自己
《99個釘子孔》——壞脾氣，傷害人
《醜小鴨變白天鵝》——堅強點，齣睏境
《自卑的小駱駝》——有自信，更快樂
《不懂放手的猴子》——該放棄，就放棄
《買報紙》——換位想，多體諒
《小蝸牛送快樂》——多微笑，傳快樂
《小白兔和小烏龜》——人與人，要閤作
《烏鴉兄弟》——責任感，從小建
財商：不要讓你的孩子成為窮人
《勤勞和懶惰》——愛勤勞，不懶惰
《金錢的價值》——懂珍惜，不浪費
《財主的三個兒子》——會花錢，*明智
《一塊磚和一座房子》——瞎揮霍，毀一生
《扔掉的麻綫》——常儲蓄，錢生錢
《虛榮的伯爵夫人》——虛榮心，要不得
《貪便宜的小兔》——愛占小，吃大虧
《貪心的蚊子》——太貪心，反吃虧
《思考的價值》——賺大錢，靠腦子
《要錢不要命》——錢重要？命重要？
學習：幫孩子把他的潛力發揮齣來
《魯迅刻“早”字》——守時間，受尊重
《想齣人頭地的小老虎》——彆空想，踏實乾
《小猴子學畫畫》——不進取，被淘汰
《小兔子比賽》——爭，沒必要
《猴子等明天》——今日事，今日畢
《小貓釣魚》——做事情，要專心
《貪玩的小花貓》——不貪玩，不誤事
《馬虎的來曆》——不粗心，不馬虎
《愛學習的小牛》——多看書，變聰明
《錶揚與批評》——老師嚴，為成纔
交往：從人見人“厭”到人見人愛
《傲慢的孔雀》——太傲慢，沒朋友
《白雪公主》——嫉妒心，害自己
《多嘴的八哥鳥》——愛插嘴，討人嫌
《蘿蔔迴來瞭》——有睏難，互相幫
《渴望友誼的毛毛蟲》——真誠心，贏友誼
《愛猜疑的公鳥》——對朋友，要信任
《“大猩猩”曼德拉》——用幽默，化矛盾
《橫行霸道的小老虎》——太霸道，沒人理
《聰明的小羊》——受氣包，學自衛
《愛齣風頭的鳥》——齣風頭，遭人厭
相信每一個女人，從做媽媽的那一天起，都希望自己成為一個好媽媽，對孩子的未來負責；而冰心又反復告訴我們：“世上沒有一朵鮮花不美麗，也沒有一個孩子不可愛。”然而，與如此和諧而美好的理想相對應的現實情況卻是——許多媽媽常常痛心疾首地訴苦：“我道理說瞭一籮筐，可孩子卻充耳不聞，還是我行我素……”
那麼，問題齣在哪裏？
不敢說百分之百，但百分之九十九是媽媽的教育方式有問題。因為很多時候，並非孩子不聽你的教導，而是孩子不能理解你所說的道理。要知道，孩子的思維是感性而直觀的，那些在大人眼裏很容易明白的道理，孩子卻不一定能聽懂，或者說他們壓根就對理性的語言不感興趣。因此，隻是單純地和孩子講道理，他們又怎麼會接受呢？
那麼，問題怎麼解決？
不敢說是標準答案，但有效的方法是讓媽媽的教育工作從講故事入手。媽媽給孩子講故事，追求的是用人去感染人、用事件去引導事件；孩子聆聽故事，收獲的是於一點一滴中對自我、對社會的反思。媽媽運用這種教育方式，能在輕鬆愉快的氛圍中，達到事半功倍、皆大歡喜的教育效果。有時候，教育就是可以如此簡單！
每一個故事都是一本社會之書，每一個孩子也都是一本生命之書。本書精選瞭許多通俗易懂、發人深省的故事，這些故事貼近孩子的生活、切閤孩子的心理。而故事以外的悟語，更像是一盞盞智慧的明燈，把一個個做人的道理、處世的技巧、人生的建議通過媽媽之口娓娓道來，引導孩子去思索、去感悟。而且，本書還有一個特色，就是每一篇文章的後都配有一個“媽媽錦囊”，為每一位媽媽提供切實的解決技巧。
願在那些繪聲繪色的故事中，媽媽種下的是正直善良的品格種子，結齣的是令人欣喜的美德之果，這對於孩子的一生來說，都是一筆無比珍貴的精神財富。
教育從來都不是一蹴而就的，既然想做一個好媽媽，就讓我們從講故事開始吧！
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